sex and why I don't have it.

theres a previous entry before this one,so here it is.
why is it,when I tell people that I am indeed..A VIRGIN its like OH MY GOD REALLY/?!?!? then suddenly "ya know,I respect that so much. you should be proud". Well,I wasn't walking around with a metal for it,but thanks. Its not like I couldn't get ass,or I don't have options(which as of late no) it just doesn't happen.

Seriously though,if I tell a guy i'm a virgin they either find it amusing or all about trying to get me to have sex.
well lets put it this way,I have no bad experience to recall.no babies or kids i am not responsible enough to tak care or or the possible std.
not having sex has to do with the fact that I was dead set on waiting until marriage.
ok and I am a big girl,while people may say "SO!??" it does make a difference to an extent. if you have an option of slimer,toned,firm body and some one with a big belly,cellulite,and stretch marks,you'll pick the slimer person.
i'm not putting myself down,i'm just stating facts. I know how society is and how people think and feel.
also-I have standards damn it. I won't date some one whos an idiot,has no responsiblity as a human. no smoking(of any kind),clean finger nails. good sense of humor and doesn't get offended by stupid things.
its also getting close enough to some body long enough for sex to even happen.

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Julianna but everyone calls me Julie. I live in southern illinois. I'm 24. I do hair aka cosmetologist and watch a lot of re-runs.music is my life and it makes me happy. my friends are my family.I'm full of useless information. i'm extremely opinionated,blunt,and honest. small talk is stupid and I have no use for it.I'm a big girl,always have been and I like who I am. if you have a problem with "fat people" you can go fuck yourself and bite my ass. however,I am a nice person for the most part and I just have no time for stupidity. sarcasm is my middle name. we only live once so don't take life so seriously.

golden girls,hello kitty,going to shows,st.louis,houston,piercings,mad tv,dane cook,my momma,my brotha,get togethers,target,christmas,my birthday,halloween,the state,reno 911,warm vanilla sugar,bottled water,singing,uncle buck,goonies,seinfeld,etc.

smoking,drugs,stupid people,eggs mixed with other foods(like omlettes),the word"yuns",jackasses,smelly people,dirty finger nails,the radio,country music,most of tv,etc.

low,rilo kiley,they might be giants,sufjan stevens,pedro the lion,motion city soundtrack,damien rice,lou barlow,jimmy eat world,mobius band,ted leo and RX,ben folds,ratatat,iron and wine,that dog,the urge,spoon,death cab for cutie,etc.

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